Win a copy of ‘The New I Do’


Want to win a free copy of The New I Do: Reshaping Marriage for Skeptics, Realists and Rebels? Seal Press is running a contest on Goodreads through Feb. 23. Enter here and good luck!


We’ll be at Copperfield’s Books in Petaluma at 7 p.m. Feb. 7 as part of the bookstore’s Valentine’s Day “Love Fest.” Please join us as we talk about romantic love and how it fits into today’s marriage. 142 Kentucky St.; 707-762-0563

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  1. First there is this deep feeling in the pit of your stamcoh and then you may or may not discover the evidence but either way you know in your mind that something is wrong! You feel it and see it in the air because your spouse is acting differently by the way they carry themselves and by finding ways through work or with friends to be away from home more often. Often something in your intimacy changes and they complain that they are to tired to make love or they want to make love more than usual because they are turned on by the thought of the lover. They may start dressing differently or working out at the gym and take more attention with their appearance. They may deliberately pick fights with you to give them a reason to leave the house so that they can call or visit the person they are involved with. This type of spouse eventually leaves a trail behind him and sooner or later gets caught. On the other hand there is another type that does not get emotionally attached and spreads out the cheating behavior every now and then over time so he is not discovered. This may be with a one night stand that he picks up from somewhere or he may patronize a variety of women through prostitutes.A man can easily tuck away a few dollars here and a few dollars there to spend one hour of his time with this type and the spouse never be the wiser for it. What it all comes down to is that a spouse may never know that they are being cheated on because there may or may not be any signs of them doing it especially if they are good at compartmentalizing their deceit and carry no guilt from it. The one sure sign that something could be up and more than likely is is a strong feeling deep within your gut and you may be lucky and find out the truth about what is going on in your world .while you may never find out at all.

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